“Remember to be Good” is an oil painting that explores themes of memory, identity, and the often-overwhelming roles we inhabit as daughters, mothers, and individuals seeking fulfilment.

The lilies in the vase recall my mother’s constant presence of flowers in our home—small, beautiful rituals that grounded the domestic space. The wallpapered jungle print hints at the unseen chaos of daily life, where nature’s beauty mingles with its wild unpredictability.

The four goldfish, swimming freely around the vase, evoke my childhood curiosity and wonder at the world. As a mother, I found similar moments of stillness and connection when watching animals with my own children, witnessing their quiet fascination.

The title “Remember to be Good” comes from my parents’ parting words whenever they took me somewhere—a gentle but loaded reminder of the expectations placed upon me.

While deeply personal, the piece invites a broader reflection on the psychological interplay between tradition, familial love, and the spaces we carve for ourselves amidst life’s demands.