There is something in this modern life.
A lack of that je ne sais quoi that used to be authentic?
Acceptable jobs, romance, art, thoughts, and even food...feels different. Critical thoughts in quotidien life like you are too feminine you are provoking, if you are too masculine you are a Tomboy if you are not vegetarian, vegan, and read the New Yorker Times you are not cool enough...label me then;

Râler
Dépaysant
Flâner

She doesn't need your opinion, your approval, or your help so you can feel less miserable. Because she looks tired, lost, and unclear; let her figure it out...we always find the way.