Grey speaks of dedication as it does of maturity – both significant aspects of relationships. Our dedication to another human being can be the source of immense joy. It can be all the more painful to wake up to the fact that the bond that was once glowing with vibrant colors has now started to fade to grey. Memories may remain of the euphoria of the old days, but these memories can lead us down a rabbit hole. It’s shattering to recognize that we have lost ourselves in the other person, and it takes maturity to cut ourselves loose from them.