Black is the absence of color. When we are facing loss, our whole body aches. But pain can trigger an interesting process: the building of layers of comprehension that there’s more to life than our previous experiences. This profound understanding, when we welcome it, helps us remain calm and still. And weather any new storm coming our way. The challenges we are facing don’t disorientate us the same way anymore – we already know we will be fine. We’re able to cut through obstacles with elegance and sophistication.