Deep inside no one dictates what's going on. Not on the inside. You're just transported to a place called Nirvana that transcends understanding. You don't even mind the weather in that magical place.
Think about it. It makes you forget time and even forget the self you'd rather leave behind. But don't be fooled just when you think you're vested you'll soon realize no such truth exists and you can count yourself fortunate If asked back. Yeah that magic is real like that...